It sucks that he is an ass!

Hi! how are you? I promised you that I won’t bother you while you’re away (seeing her). So luckily instead of sending you an email (and yes, I’m a little tipsy), I can do so via this blog. BUT before I get into what this is about, I have to get this off my chest “BSG, you suck, big time!” Seriously? You couldn’t find the time or medium to wish me a happy birthday? Really?!! First and foremost you are my friend – and that was disappointing. You could have done so via email or even Whatsapp – that doesn’t cost money while you’re overseas. Whatever… this is my forum to tell you that you disappointed me, but I won’t say that to you when I see you next month and it’s not like you’re actually going to read my blog. So at least I got this off my chest!

Anyways, back to tonight. It was 9:15 pm and I decided to call it a night and go to bed. I came back this morning from a business trip on the red eye and had limited sleep PLUS, I did think I had plans this evening, but turns out I assumed – and you know what they say about assuming (back to that in a second). I get a message via Whatsapp from this guy I met through Tinder. We were supposed to go out tomorrow but he was wondering if by any chance I was free tonight. Lo and behold, I was. He picked me up and we went out for a drink. As I sat across him and we started talking I realised we have no chemistry what so ever. Someone might tell me that I should give the guy a chance, maybe even go on a second date with him, BUT I’ve had enough experiences to know that it’s either there or not. AND all I could think of is that I wish I was with KLG, but he was an asshole to me today.

I haven’t seen hims since we slept together two weeks ago. He had a cold sore and so he didn’t want to risk it with me (as we have a hard time keeping our hands off of each other). Then I went away on business, so it’s been 2 weeks. We’ve been texting and the way we were going at it via texts, it sounded to me like he wanted to see me as soon as I was back – so I made the stupid assumption that meant the evening I was back. Anyways, I texted him after my birthday lunch date with my cousin and this is how it went:

Me: Hey there sexy!! Sleep well? 🙂

KLG: Hey there sexy!!! How was your trip and your Sangrias?

Me: Trip was good but long. Missed home. no Sangria but the Mimosa was awesome. What are you up to?

KLG: Watching soccer. When are you leaving for your trip?

Me: July X

KLG: Phew

Me: Why? Are we rescheduling?

KLG: Rescheduling….

Me: ????

KLG: I didn’t know we booked something

Me: You didn’t know we were meeting tonight?

KLG: I know you said that you would text me early but you never did. And we’d figure out if we were going to meet. Scroll up!

Me: Don’t worry about it!!

KLG: Seriously, look up

Me: All I said was that we’ll figure out how early you want to see me today. Sorry, I guess I misunderstood and thought we were meeting today. No worries! Enjoy your night!

KLG: How early? You never wrote that. I can meet you later.

Me: KLG, seriously don’t worry about it

KLG: I’m not going to beg you to see me. We never made plans. I just said I can meet you later. And if you want to run off to plan b or c, go for it.

And in my head, I was giving him the middle finger. Seriously?! I don’t need you to beg. I need you to be respectful. I don’t play games. I truthfully thought that you wanted to see me so bad that we were meeting today. BUT that’s your MO – you wait for me to come to you, and for me to make the plans or tell you when we are meeting. No wonder that at the ripe age of 41 you have never been engaged, married or lived with someone. BUT, it sucks. Because as I was on this date tonight, all I could think of is that I would rather be with KLG – as the chemistry (and me wanting to jump him) is so strong!!  And it’s not like I even want a relationship with this guy because he is an ass. And although I did enjoy having sex with him, it wasn’t my best!

And the sad reality is that I have yet to meet that guy with whom I have such a strong connection that I want to call him up and share my day’s anecdotes with.

Unfortunately that guy still remains you, BSG 😦

Me Xxx